Tamar asked.
With two funerals, a sick child, some travel for her husband, 3 days of work per week, preparing Mishloach Manot for Purim, and cooking for guests this weekend, she's running at 100% capacity.
Death and funerals have a way of both slowing you down and speeding you up.
You take a day off for the funeral and some time for the shiva, but you spend the day before that getting everything in order.
The answer: probably never. Well, until you die.
There's always something...that's just the way it is, I think.