Friday, January 19, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 57: Global Entry

I don't know who came up with it, but I am very grateful for the Global Entry process when you return to the US from abroad.  There's a fee and you have to get fingerprinted/retina scanned (so when the Russians hack that database, you are really up a creek).

Until then, however, it allows you to fly through immigration in under 1 minute.

After a long, international flight, that's a welcome relief to not stand in any lines.

Yay for government.

Maybe tomorrow I'll do Pre-check and Clear?

Thursday, January 18, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 56- Blogging and Ev Williams

I've been blogging for 18 years now and I still feel so fortunate that I can publish my thoughts to share with others on a daily basis with basically zero friction.

Plus, I've got a repository now of over 3,000 blog posts that serve as my open diary (for the most part).

I also like the fact that it's "pull" not "push" like email is. So, it's there and if you read it, great. If you don't, that's ok as well.

For me, though, it's been a valuable enhancer for life and I'm grateful to Ev Williams for inventing Blogger so log ago.

Wednesday, January 17, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 55: the mountains

I spent 2 days in Boulder, Colorado this week and found myself in awe of the beautiful mountains to the west of the town.

They are inspiring. Moments like that, where I see nature in its beauty, make me realize how small I am in the world. At the same time, I feel grateful for the opportunity to experience them.

Tuesday, January 16, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 54: Scott Doniger

As luck would have it, one of my best friends from Sprinklr moved to Boulder, where I am right now.  I had the chance to have dinner w/him and his wife.  As luck would have it, it was also his birthday that same day.

Scott was more than a friend. He was a partner, coach, and mentor.

Today, I am grateful for Scott Doniger.

Monday, January 15, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 53: Flight Attendants

For the most part, I have a pretty good flying experience. Maybe it's because my expectations are low!

I talk to a lot of the flight attendants on the planes when I am traveling and, almost universally, I enjoy it.  It's not an easy job that they have.

Today, I am grateful for them.

Sunday, January 14, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 52: Portable Wi-Fi hotspots

Sitting on a plane bound for Denver, I am grateful for the fact that I can turn my phone into a mobile hot spot.

It helps me be optimally efficient at this moment.  That's key to my overall commitment to getting the highest ROI possible on my time away from home.

So, to whomever invented wi-fi and his/her partner who made it possible to hot-spot enable my phone, I thank you for your contribution to my objective of a happy home life.

Friday, January 12, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 51- America

When I was 14, my dad took me to communist eastern Europe for 2 weeks. After time in the Soviet Union, Poland, and East Germany, we arrived in West Berlin.

I was 14 years old and I remember thinking that it was the first time in my entire life that I was grateful for having been born in the USA.

I was thinking of this in light of the President's "shit-hole" comments last night.  It's sad.

Not so much because I think the immigration debate is a legitimate one. I think it's ok for a country to decide who/how people should be allowed to come.

The reason I was upset was because it denied the very essence of what makes America great (and he seems to miss that).

It is great because so many people would literally risk their lives for the freedoms and opportunities we have here.

Yes, many countries are a basket case of mismanagement and corruption. It's really sad and there's work to be done, but by lopping the people in with the countries in such a negative way, it showed me that he doesn't really "get" the essence of America that I felt sitting 50 feet from the Berlin Wall in 1987.

That's unfortunate, of course, but ironically, his comment helped re-kindle my gratitude for what is beautiful about the American experiment.

Thursday, January 11, 2018

Gratitude Journal-- Day 50 - house slippers

I lived in Japan for 2 years in my twenties and I love the fact that people take off their shoes and put on slippers whenever they enter a house (and even some offices).

We're pretty good about it at our house and the kids' friends all know that it's the custom here.

I used to walk around in socks (or barefoot in the summer), but the NFO got me a great pair of slippers that I now wear all the time while I'm at home. Comfortable. Very comfortable.

I appreciate the NFO for getting them, of course, but I REALLY appreciate the people who made these slippers. Wow.

So grateful for their contribution to my peace of mind and stability while I'm at home.

Wednesday, January 10, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 49: After Shave

I've worked from home for nearly 10 years now. I am well past the "get distracted" phase, but there have been days where  I jumped into activities and realized at 4 or 5pm that I hadn't shaved.

It's not a big deal, but I've noticed that a shave in the morning is what helps me say "ok, game time."

And about 6-7 months ago, I started putting on after shave (long story as to why, but we'll skip that.)

There's something about the sting of the liquid on my face (and head) that I love.

So, today, I am grateful for after shave.

Tuesday, January 09, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 48: Live Sports

I wanted to go to bed last night, but I had a sense that the Alabama-Georgia game would have some sort of interesting finish.

And it didn't disappoint.

In our "on-demand" world where algorithms can predict what we are going to want before we want it, there is something powerful about the fact that we can all share an experience simultaneously and all be surprised.

I think that is why live sports still command such high amounts of attention. It's a human, emotional, and social experience that happens with other people at large scale.

I am grateful for live sports that can help us feel in unexpected and human ways.


Monday, January 08, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 47: 30+ Nephews and Nieces

Between the NFO's 6 siblings and my 4, we have 30 nephews and nieces...with 4 more on the way.

(Note: if you had taken the "over" on the over/under of 33 set by my cousin Barry in the months leading up to our wedding 17 years ago, you would have won).

Yesterday, I saw 4 of them and I am lucky that, fairly often, I get to see many of them.

What is particularly cool about having such a large number and wide variety of "niecews" is that you get to see personal development over a period of time with a large data set.

This allows you to see common patterns emerge while simultaneously appreciating the evolving, unique characteristics of each individual.

Since all but 3 of them pre-date my entry in to the family and I've known all but 2 since their births, it is remarkable to see so many life stories unfold in real-time.

Today, I am grateful for my 30 (and counting!) nephews and nieces

Sunday, January 07, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 46: Network Collaborators

It sounds like I am organizing a revolution of some kind, but today I am grateful for all of the people who give of their time and energy to help me become a better professional.

Every day, there are multiple people who provide introductions to people in their network, offer feedback on my blog posts or articles, or suggest new ways for me to add value.

There is no way I could list all of them here, but recently people like Josef Katz, Jason Schwartz, Joe Jaffe and others (I guess the name must start with "J"?) have all done it, but there are countless others.

Abe Pachikara reads all my stuff and is an amazing source of inspiration and refinement as well.

My brothers are fantastic in this respect too.

Today, I am grateful for the people who give their time and energy to help me become better as a crypto/blockchain marketer.

Friday, January 05, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 45: Compression Underwear

Paco and I have made the wholesale switch to wearing compression underwear only.

It's been a game-changer for us.

Don't tell anyone, but sometimes, when the NFO and the girls aren't home, we will just walk around in the compression underwear alone, just to celebrate our passion for the comfort.

Whoever invented it...man, we are both grateful to him (or her). Though, in this case, I suspect it's a him ;-)

Hey, cultivating gratitude is about the little things, right? ;-)

Thursday, January 04, 2018

Gratitude Journal-Day 44: Marvin and Ingrid Clark

I met Marvin when I lived in Frankfurt in 1996. He was retired from USAF but had married a German woman and lived there.

He was a stock broker and I interned with Merrill Lynch, where he worked.

He befriended me, even going so far as to invite me to his home to watch the Cowboys-Steelers Super Bowl game from midnight to 4am at his home, with his wife, Ingrid.

I haven't seen Marvin or Ingrid since then, but I called him on his birthday, sent him the quarterly email update and, once a year, would get an Xmas letter from him and Ingrid.

It followed the same format...an analysis of global politics, an update on their travel destinations, and a few other smaller items.

I knew that Marvin had contracted Parkinson's, but this year's letter really hit me as it was the first one that Marvin couldn't write himself. Ingrid wrote it for him and in a straight up German style basically said "it was a rough year." But she kept her head up and was pragmatic at the same time.

It was sad as I realized I am probably not going to hear from Marvin directly again. 

So today, I am grateful for Marvin and Ingrid Clark, their friendship and their approach to life.

Wednesday, January 03, 2018

Los Angeles, Winter 2017, Vacation Checklist

A quick recap of places we visited and a 1-5 star rating for each for posterity sake


  • Warner Brothers Studio tour-- 4 stars
  • Museum of Tolerance- 5 stars
  • Hollywood Walk of Fame- 2 stars
  • Manhattan Beach- 5 stars
  • La Brea tar pits- 2.5 stars (I liked it, kids didn't)
  • Santa Monica Pier- 3 stars
  • Getty Villa in Malibu- 5 stars
  • Reagan Library- 5 starts








Gratitude Journal- Day 43: Ken, Marcelo, and Crypto Explorers

About 10 months ago, I had the idea to go to Zug, Switzerland to explore Crypto Valley.

I was content to go on my own and just build the network, but Ken Berger and, a bit later, Marcelo Garcia saw huge potential in the idea.

They reached out to me and over the past few months, we've done 2 trips there, leading nearly 75 people on an exploration of the decentralized future through the Crypto Explorers group.

Now, we have another sold out trip coming up at the end of January and a 4th planned for April, plus some other opportunities as well.

I'm grateful to both of these guys for helping me think bigger and broader, for offering complementary skills, and showing me how ideas can be additive and create greater value.

It's a good lesson to remember and it's a good feeling to have as well.

Tuesday, January 02, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 42: Heated, Private Cars

Drove the kids to school today and, on our way, we passed a bus stop with people waiting.

It was something like 26 degrees. Really uncomfortable.

I felt very fortunate that I have a car that I can jump in and, after a few cold minutes, be pretty comfortable.

I'm grateful for my car and for its heating system.

Monday, January 01, 2018

Gratitude Journal- Day 41- Ronald Reagan

Yesterday, on our last day in California, we visited the Ronald Reagan National Library in Simi Valley, CA.

For me, Reagan is a special president. 

I remember before he got elected and during the campaign, that was the time that the American hostages were being held in the Embassy in Tehran.

My dad clearly said to me (I guess I was 7), that "if Reagan beats Carter, the Iranians will let the hostages go."

Now, remember, the hostages had been held for 444 days so that's a bold statement.

Sure enough, that's what happened.

It made a strong impression on me vis a vis foreign policy.

My dad took me to Reagan's first inauguration. 

Reagan was also the president for me from age 8 to 16 and he benefits from the positive association of an upper middle class childhood that included private education, ability to travel, extracurriculars, etc.....and most important of all, the Washington Redskins won 3 Super Bowls during that time, plus we had tickets to the games!

So, power of association connects Reagan with good experiences.

More than that, I like his policies on small government, taxation, individual liberty, freedom and life as my life experience has verified it.

Finally, he was effective, but didn't take himself too seriously.

That's a unique set of leadership traits.

I actually found myself getting emotional at the end of the tour watching the video of his funeral as I thought about his impact on my life.

So, today, I am grateful for our 40th President, Ronald Reagan.

If you are considering going at some point, I will also just add that the Library and its grounds are absolutely magnificent as is the exhibit itself.  The Air Force One visit is not worth the wait, however.

What I love about Christmas---as a Jew and as an American

I really like the Christmas experience in America and I am a pretty committed Jew.

What I like about it is the fact that, for about 2-3 weeks, most of the country is just in a slightly better mood. Yes, there are challenges with family schedules and neuroses and flights/train/car travel time, but there's a much SLOWER pace to the workday.

It's as if, building off the quote from Andrew Carnegie [ I think] that "the business of America is business," we all kind of agree to take a break for a short time.

I think that's a good thing. The other 50 weeks of the year are so hectic, it's just nice to have a little festive cheer.  It so happens that, it began, because the holiday has Christian significance, but now it's become an American holiday...and that, I think, is part of what makes America great. 

The best of the world come here and make a contribution. That contribution is uniquely yours and what you get out of it is uniquely yours....and that's what America represents. The chance to be uniquely you.

Coming back to Christmas, then...there are two components.  The religious (originating) component and the secular (modern) component. The secular components has become part of America's Operating System, which basically says "we do christmas and we celebrate the year at that time with people we care about, but it doesn't necessarily HAVE to be about Jesus/religion. It can be, if you want it to be and that's your right, but it doesn't have to be either because that's our right. Understanding that balance is the key to understand what it means to be American.

So, since we've incorporated the secular components of Christmas into the American OS, I can easily say that, as an identified and proud Jew and identified and proud American at the same time, I love Christmas because of what it means to me on both levels. 

I don't celebrate Christmas as a Christian, but I do celebrate the time around Christmastime as an American and I cherish that shared experience with all other Americans.