Thursday, July 07, 2011
Having the Difficult Conversation...
In the past few weeks, the NFO and I were privy to some sad news from friends.
One has breast cancer.
Another is getting divorced.
The challenge facing us (since our kids would eventually hear about them) was: how to explain these situations.
It wasn't easy, but I think we did an admirable job. Our kids were involved and asked questions.
I don't know if they will "put it all together" when they find out the actual situations or not, but I think the lesson for us (again) was: don't shy away from the tough conversations; better to have them upfront.
I would imagine that this is just one of may more.
One has breast cancer.
Another is getting divorced.
The challenge facing us (since our kids would eventually hear about them) was: how to explain these situations.
It wasn't easy, but I think we did an admirable job. Our kids were involved and asked questions.
I don't know if they will "put it all together" when they find out the actual situations or not, but I think the lesson for us (again) was: don't shy away from the tough conversations; better to have them upfront.
I would imagine that this is just one of may more.
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