
The last few have taken a while and a variety of shenanigans and assists (North Dakota #45 in 2008 incl. a hot tub at minus 6 degrees, Michigan #46 in 2008, #47 Oregon in 2010, #48 Alaska in 2011) and today, I was able to knock off #49....
Welcome to Nebraska!
In our family, we have a concept that my dad and brother, Asher, invented called "PLACE of the mind."
Originally, it came about when they were in Norway, "Norway of the Mind," but it now applies to any place you visit.
It reflects an effort to immerse yourself in the people, places, culture, and philosophy of any location in order to better understand it.

We had to achieve a "Nebraska of the Mind."

What did the say?
Nebraskans are:
- hearty (you have to be to survive the harsh climate in summer and winter)
- hard-working, roll up your sleeve types
- accepting of outsiders (there's a large immigrant/refugee community here, particularly from Somalia and Myanmar)
- focused on family (both Paul and his friends' families go back generations)
- appreciative of the relatively slow pace and family-friendly atmosphere
- "Nebraska Nice," a term that means people will always be friendly and courteous to you...even if they don't really like you. Certainly good when some Type-A East Coasters come to town! ;-)



Even better, in the elevator which takes you to the 14th floor observation deck, my dad had the presence of mind to ask the other person with us, "are you involved in state government?"
That's how we had the chance to chat with State Senator Joni Craighead of Omaha (our new favorite Cornhusker legislator). I even got her autograph in our Guide to the Nebraska statehouse book!

Our final stop in Lincoln was the University where, as a sports fan, we needed to visit Memorial Stadium, home to the Cornhusker football team and the ongoing NCAA record for most consecutive home sellouts (currently at 311, I believe). It was locked, but homage was duly paid.
More on that tomorrow.
Before I close, I should make a special mention. This trip is a celebration of my dad's 80th year. As part of his year-long celebration, he decided that he wanted to visit many of his old friends and, if he could, take 1:1 trips with each of his kids.
He asked me where I wanted to go...which is how I settled on Nebraska.
So, in reality, the point of this trip is both visit my 49th state and, more importantly, spend quality time with my dad, being part of this great milestone and all he's accomplished and taught me over the years.
Everything else is just bonus...we just happen to be in a Nebraska of the Mind way.
For those keeping track...Hawaii is #50. Seems appropriate.