My buddy, Ben Vollmer, said that to me a few weeks ago.
I had been nudging him (consistently) about something.
He responded: “Back off, I’ll get to you in January.”
And he will.
When I thanked him for his direct approach, he said, “Good Friends aren’t afraid to slap one another.”[ ™ Ben Vollmer © 2009]
And he’s right.
Being a good friend means, I think, being willing to put people in their place and say what others won’t.