I was talking to my friend, Tamir, the other day and the subject turned to preventative medical tests and screening.
We're both in our early 40s, but have both had some medical conditions that required a pretty significant amount of attention, time, and care.
He complimented me for sharing the fact that I recently had a colonoscopy as he felt it would raise awareness and maybe motivate others to do so.
(I tried to earn bonus points by sharing that I had my PSA tested that week..I'm good on both until age 50.)
As we discussed it, we shared that we both knew people who were afraid of these relatively simple procedures and, as a result, didn't do them.
We believed most people were not taking these tests because they preferred to live in denial, ignorance, and continue the myth of invincibility.
However, what we also realized is that those who choose to not take the tests that could result in very simple preventative procedures actually are really selfish.
By not taking the test, they are, in effect, saying
"I'd rather not know about a potential condition now because it makes me feel vulnerable, so instead, I am going to wait and hope nothing happens, but if it does, I'd prefer to seriously inconvenience my family, make my loved ones worry about me, and put unnecessary financial hardship on those about whom I care."
In fact, Tamir knew someone who put off a test and then, later, was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer...a much more challenging situation than a 5 minute laser procedure to remove a polyp.
I know it's not really PC to make judgments, but sorry, I'm making a judgment. If you do this, you're a selfish idiot.