Wednesday, November 05, 2014
A regular, not so regular evening
Maybe it was because I had been away for a few days.
Or perhaps it was because the NFO needed to be out for most of the day and into the early part of the evening.
Still, tonight, I was on point and solo for making sure the kids were fed and completed their homework before bedtime.
Lesson 1 was a deep appreciation for how much the NFO does either by herself (due to my travel schedule) or as the lead parent for this part of the day.
But there was a moment, when I was sitting at the dining room table helping both Tikkanen and Lakkanen with their respective homework assignments that time stood still.
We call it a "mental snapshot" and I realized that this was just "one of those school nights" when the kids would think many years hence that they had eaten dinner and done homework. Just a part of the routine of life.
And as I thought that, I recognize, like the old John Lennon adage, that this WAS LIFE. I realized that, never again, would they be that age, at that time, doing that exact thing. It was both mundane and profound all at the same time.
I cherished it. As my friend Josh would say, I "sucked out the marrow of Life" in that moment and just savored it for what it was. A dad, helping his daughters with their homework.
It was both fleeting and eternal.
Or perhaps it was because the NFO needed to be out for most of the day and into the early part of the evening.
Still, tonight, I was on point and solo for making sure the kids were fed and completed their homework before bedtime.
Lesson 1 was a deep appreciation for how much the NFO does either by herself (due to my travel schedule) or as the lead parent for this part of the day.
But there was a moment, when I was sitting at the dining room table helping both Tikkanen and Lakkanen with their respective homework assignments that time stood still.
We call it a "mental snapshot" and I realized that this was just "one of those school nights" when the kids would think many years hence that they had eaten dinner and done homework. Just a part of the routine of life.
And as I thought that, I recognize, like the old John Lennon adage, that this WAS LIFE. I realized that, never again, would they be that age, at that time, doing that exact thing. It was both mundane and profound all at the same time.
I cherished it. As my friend Josh would say, I "sucked out the marrow of Life" in that moment and just savored it for what it was. A dad, helping his daughters with their homework.
It was both fleeting and eternal.